He's the confused one...

[BRNR]

So a little show down with H today. I was patient and kind and let him look like the jack a$$ he is....

H is confused about the court orders for support and I repeated over and over that I didn't understand them that way, and that if he wanted clarification, he should call his attorney to clarify and not me since we were in disagreement.

I realized very quickly that it didn't matter what I said...he was going to fight me tooth and nail on his court ordered obligations.

So, I called my attorney who said in fact I understood the orders clearly. I guess my H didn't realize how much he indebted himself to this sitch.

Overall, I was proud of myself by staying calm and collected for the most part. I was shaking as today was the first time H and I had a conversation either face to face or over the phone in 4-5 months.

On other matters, I am suspecting H's funds are running nil to nothing because his downright refusal to call his attorney was very adamant. I suspect he has little or no money for the consultation.

So just another day otherwise. Hopefully H realizes I am not going to put up with these games.

So here is to the start of the end with my beligerent angry H. Divorce is the right thing for my sitch...there is NO love or any reason that I want my marriage saved.