Wow! I really would have thought some of the things you said to her would have driven her farther away, but regardless, I just have one question for you- what do YOU want? You've been all over the map lately, so assuming your W is serious and committed, what do YOU want? Are you on board with a reconciliation attempt as well? If so, then spend the next few days researching piecing threads and come up with a game plan. I think you did the right thing telling your W to take a week to think about it. You should think about it too. Get prepared for that talk in a week. If she's "all-in", then lay out your boundaries and discuss the steps in reconciling. RetroV, MC, date nights, whatever they may be.
