Angela,

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Anyway, how do I handle all this anger and hate directed at ME because he lost his precious OW???!!!


Been there quite a few times. W had several "significant" EA's, and I had nothing to do with the "break ups", lol, the PA and one last EA, she had gotten to the point where she knew I wasn't the one to take it out on (this is Feb this year, progress), ignore it best you can, otherwise just go dimmer, as PM suggested.


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