I think you should go and keep it strictly business with financial and S stuff only, which is important. Keep it to a business meeting...And you should go looking HOT! Wear that cologne and look awesome.
Then if she starts to try and "catch up" have a reason that you have to leave. Give her more reason to think about her choices.
Just my two cents.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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