Yes, this. “They insisted it was the right thing to do” applies to my H big time! He is very stubborn and it will take a major fall down to make him to re-evaluate his decision.
Rosa, I kind of had the same thoughts about your H’s behavior. He is buying his time by pretending that he is moving towards the D decision. I’m not sure what he is hoping to achieve by doing this though. Maybe he is trying to convince himself. Time will tell. You are doing great!
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state