I'm quite chilled about it, seems like a development but maybe not, I dont read much into anything now, just go with the flow,
TB
This is a good frame of mind TB but I also see from your posts that you are still giving your W a lot of space in your mind.
It's only natural of course and I've been where your at.
Its easy for me to tell you that you are still mind reading too much and thinking about her or what she is doing, what does she mean when she say's this or that, why is she asking me to do this instead of OM, etc...
And that you need to do what you want to do and act how you wish without any thought of a reaction or lack of a reaction from her.
The detachment process is not linear and takes a long time.