My H is back to anger right now and it's hard. That's all I can say, "It's just plain HARD."
Take care of yourself as much as you can. Extra bubble baths, manicures, new clothes or haircuts if you can afford it. Just be very kind to your heart right now. It's bad enough to digest an affair, let alone having your spouse who just shattered your heart angry with YOU!!! It's truly bizarre.
As time wears on, you will, I promise, begin to see how she is nothing and means nothing--If choses to find someone else--same deal. She is a distraction to his pain. An OW will allow behavior that YOU won't. He doesn't feel like he has to be on his best behavior with her. She will accept a very troubled, damaged person.
Let him wallow.
Hey! A new bumper sticker for LBS-er's!!! "Wallow AWAY!!!! :-)
I'm so funny.
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
