PM, glad you found me over here, too!! I really appreciate your male insight!!!
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When things seem out of control and emotions are running high, go back to the basics.
Focus on being the best Angela R and the best mom you can be in every moment. Be honorable. Be true to YOURSELF first. Do not show him an emotional reaction to anything he says or does. You are cool as a cucumber.
Once you have control of the basics, you can start to concern yourself with the specifics. Basics first.
GREAT advice. I am still just spinning and spinning, today. Especially, after I was so naïve and thought that H would start being nicer...that he would feel bad for what he's done. Instead, he's being more hateful and mean. I know this is MLC stuff. Still svcks!!!
And, I know this is really stupid, since I just found out about his affair....but I already miss the physical stuff with him. If he accidentally touches me, he acts like it burned him. Ugh. I feel utter and total rejection.
