OW is refusing all contact with H since BD last Thursday. He told her he was divorced already when she was with him so she wants nothing to do with him now. He got so angry that he broke his second phone (YAY! Muawhahahaha! *evil laugh*)I HATED that stupid phone....we've had many fights over that stupid piece of plastic.
I know she may change her mind so that isn't why I'm writing. Or, he may just move on to someone else, for that matter. I'm trying to prepare myself for that.
I'm writing because he is so angry with me for finding out. And is so angry, I guess, for me causing OW to stop contact with him. He is WAY more distant and depressed than before.
He was home yesterday, sleeping, when I got home. We just ignored each other until he left for work. We were civil but very, very distant.
This morning, he texted me about our bank account and got very hateful, very fast. I told him that I am not going to fight. Period. Just not going to. And, I told him that he doesn't need to be rude when dealing with me.
Anyway, how do I handle all this anger and hate directed at ME because he lost his precious OW???!!! Will he get over it and stop being such a jerk?
This "new" type of hate is hurting me in a totally different way. Ugh.
