Originally Posted By: cbtdad

I need to focus on the future and let go of the past. Wasting energy on te unchangable past does nothing good for the positive future.
That is my plan. Time to get back to moving towards present and future


Hi cbtdad, Your plan above sounds like a great start for you. I think it's good that you recognize where you went wrong and are willing to change in order to move forward.

-cp

M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.