ed to above this: Why is cleaning the house "doing" for "her"? Was that an agreement you had, that housecleaning was her job? If so that's fine and if you're helping because you want to then continue, if you're doing it to make points, stop.

You have work to do.

was meant to go at the end.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss