I agree jp. For this to work we need to pace ourselves, and not move to quickly. I think H and I have come up with a good plan of moving forward. I am kind of excited, but also a bit worried that he will not follow through on his promises. Right now he is saying he wants to work on things, which I think is huge. But for the past year he has been all over the place with how he feels, it has been a huge rollercoaster ride. I think that now we are on the right path, and I just need to make a leap of faith. I can't turn back now, just as things are getting better.
So now we are at the place of dealing with all of the issues and concerns we have previously had, in order to move forward and build a stronger marriage.
Yes, there are a boatload of issues, but think of how great the reward will be, and the view from the top of the mountain! We can do this jp!!
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.