Dear RL,

I am glad that you have set a boundary with your H, and I admire that you are standing for your marriage. It is clear that you love him with all of your heart. He is in a crisis, and you are doing your best by him and supporting him.

Over time, he will look back and know that you were always there for him. And you will always know that you did all that you could. Hopefully he comes to realize what a catch you are.

TSquared..you seem to notice the irony in the subtleties of everyday life. My H got to choose an essay theme for his English course essay.. he chose the theme, "Do. Or do not. There is no try." (Yoda quote). I found that a tad ironic, considering our situation, and had a good chuckle about it!! laugh


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.