Also, RL, when H & I were talking this past weekend about his MLC, he told me that he needed to hit bottom once or twice to see reality. He really can see what he did and what he needed during MLC. It's quite amazing. My pain isn't a part of the issue. His pain was tremendous.
We both know and recognize the pain but don't need to discuss it. It feels like we are healing. A little bit every day. And each positive experience we have is adding to the feeling it is over. For now, anyway. I could hope it never happens again, by I'm wiser now and am just enjoying each day for what it is.
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway