PM - I had been thinking earlier today of asking exactly such questions, but did not want to burden the folks here on the board, so thank you for asking (smiley face here).

The goals could include:

o daring to be honest, with authentic, caring communication with my W and kids, just like I had with my dad about his incontinence
o positive (the glass is half full, folks)
o capable of the 9 miles on weekends (and I really should stretch and weightlift too)
o meditate in the mornings, to quiet my mind
o being more socially at ease, like my French guy friend
o creating my life actively, like the men's lunch club thing
o better in touch with my real self - so less mind and thought

I think that these would be viewed positively.

Luke

M58, xW54
S22, D18
M 1984, D 2016
Living a new life.