PM - I don't know much at all, but am now more consciously trying to live actively, instead of just letting life happen. EE and GAL have been very motivating for that.
I am going out for a business dinner tonight, and will be gone all day Sunday, interviewing college applicants.
L
Those are very excellent steps for you and I'm glad you're taking them.
What steps are you taking to establish yourself as a respectable man in your family? I see that you don't like being treated disrespectfully by your W, and you don't like that your D is beginning to mirror your W's behavior. My guess is that this is an area where you want to change, but I don't want to guess, so let's take this one step at a time:
What kind of man does LuckyLuke want to be? For example:
What attributes would describe this version of you?
How would this version of you be viewed by your family and others?
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.