Sorry about your son being sad, NQ. It's so hard to watch them struggle with this cr@p. As if it isn't tough enough just to be a teenager!!! This is where I get so mad at my H, for what he is displaying to his S. I think getting your S a mentor is the best thing you can do right now. He needs someone to talk to that is not a parent and will hold his confidence.
Gosh I feel so sorry for your H and his money issues...NOT. Gee, looky what he got himself into. Mine still lives at home so still has all the comforts of home and being an a$$. LOL.
It's so strange to see them doing things that they wouldn't normally do if they were with you. But I take that as they are still trying desperately to figure themselves out. Poor babies.
NOT. LOL, can you tell what kind of mood I am in today??
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.