WBW-hugs to you and you will be well.

It's a piece of paper and some WAS need it to move on. Where you choose to go next is up to you.

Financially I am in the same boat, in school, with H saying I can take over my bills next year.

I haven't yet told him with my salary that it will not be possible to keep this house and lifestyle. Which is not a big issue for me smile