Better to love or be loved?

[willbwell]

the petition say grounds for divorce because the marriage has become insupportable because of discord or conflict of personalities that destroys the legitimate ends of the marriage relationship and prevents any reasonable expectation of reconciliation.
the discord I guess started after the affair started.
My personality hasn't changed. I am still good and kind and do what is right.

It is amazing to me that someone says I want a divorce and then Wham! Do attorneys ask... have you thought about Marriage counseling? hell no! Do they ask... Could there be some underlying Madical condition -ie depression?

H has said he wants to 'move forward'. well D is nothing but going backwards.

I know I am supposed to allow God to take over here. I want to scream against the injustice! I want to stop crying.

I keep saying to myself...let go, let go. I shake my head and swallow my sobs. I know eventually I will be ok. I will get thru.
Boy, I wish I could take a vacation!!