2old, just checking up on you. Got to speak to the DB coach this morning, but if you check my updates, you will see the conversation went around a lot of other things. So I didn't really get an answer that would help you either.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.