Thanks FY, rH, and Ambivalent. W was sick again yesterday and didn't go to work. Miraculous recovery by the end of the day.

She appears to be headed for a job change of her choosing. A little extra pay that will be countered by the gas for the extra travel to work and she would no longer be available to take the boys or pick up the boys at school.

She no longer considers any long term consequences. I hope I can lead her to these answers without pushing.

The fight continues. Not giving up.

M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later