Originally Posted By: Accuray
Busting, do your best to just maintain a baseline. H can be nice, or H can be mean, Busting is Busting. That's the classic roller coaster and you don't need to ride it.

What you need to protect your kids from is disappointment. That requires helping to manage their expectations, and ensuring the expectations they do have are met.


acc - thanks for so clearly and succinctly putting this...


Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D