Living on a roller coaster

[CallaghanClown]

Today's interaction......I know I shouldn't care but apcan someone shed a light?

So after years of my H's lack of memory, I've always advised him to write lists and cross them off as he does them (prior to DB). He never has an I spent my life organising him and reminding him....to no avail.

This morning I woke to a message from him saying that I may be shocked but he's started a to do list and that it only took him 10 years.

I responded I'm very proud but is be lying if I didn't say that this moment of clear thinking hasn't shocked me. Or should I be looking at it a different way?