Thanks TTD180, I really should focus on her being in a fog still. And in some ways, that is why I wanted to buy the house from her. To keep our dream alive in a way. It was still important for me to buy it as well.
I probably will have to have a good talk to the boys when I get back home in two months time. Rather than asking them what they think, I will just simply say my side of what has happened. Without putting their mother down. I just want them to understand I tried my best........and will continue as much as I can.

The removalists unload at the other end as well. Most stuff has been decluttered, apart from my clothes which are now two sizes too big for me. But who knows that could change.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.