Thinking some more on the trigger W might have at school functions (aside from the social anxiety) has me wondering if S1 entering that phase of life started stirring the demons 7 years ago or so, before he went back to homeschooling...those years the SAD was markedly worse...idk, still too soon to put the puzzle all together accurately...
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm