Just a thought...you're dating because? If you're still thinking about your XW, in my opinion you should not be dating. Take some time to find yourself again and rebuild your life alone. You must be a successful 'me' before you can be a successful 'we.' If you haven't worked through the issues, or figured out your piece in them, you will attract a person in the same emotional state. This won't work out so well in the long run.
Take your time, enjoy your kids, and have some fun before entering a new relationship!
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
