Hi HWA. Have been reading along all this time. Am feeling uch sadness at this time, but glad that you now can let this go while leaving the door open and feel freer(?) to move ahead with your life knowing you have done the work.

I think I like your original reply most. I like the Coach's messages to you. It is offering support, at the same time not giving you unrealistic expectations. I remember one session I had with coach, she almost completely focussed on me, my difficulties, my feelings and my GAL. It was good for a change not to focus on H's problems.

Have a great time looking forward to the rest of your life.