Me 1 year on

[hotwheelsaust]

Thanks TTD180 and Ruby.
I do agree the W showed some courtesy with sending an email first. I also wonder if she is also waiting for what my reply could be?
I do think the W has no idea what she really wants to do. I think she is very mixed up, but is listening too much to what others think or want. I believe the W simply thinks that ending the M is going to solve all the problems. Yes it is mindreading, but the mindreading is feeling very strong today. I feel that is why the communication has been very little and combined with no face to face meetings. It is simply easier to deal with the issues, or to make everything easier when you can ignore it all. In addition I believe she wants to get the assets over and done with so she can have the divorce papers issued early December.
Nothing I can do about either of these.
I will be very civil, not need not to be, during this difficult time. I feel my reply should be something like this:

"W, I accept your offer, I am sorry it has come to this. hotwheels".

"W, I accept your request of how the assets are to be handled. I am truly sorry you felt this was the only option. Hotwheels".

"W, I am sorry you feel this is the only way to be happy. I care about you being happy, therefore I will agree to your offer. Hotwheels".

I won't send the reply for another day or two, but please let me know which one sounds better, or could be changed to sound better.

TTD180, I don't have to pack, the removalists come and do all the packing except personal clothing etc.
Ruby, thanks I will have a great time at the party. Cake has been organised and will be a nice surprise for everyone.