One more question- I'm sending her mail tomorrow that's accumulated at the house along with an iphone charger (I sledgehammered my iphone.) I'd like to send her some cash and a thank you not for all of her hardwork since we've moved here. She has been working 6 days a week recently to save up before her seasonal position is cut.
Her love language is words of encouragement so I wonder if anyone thinks a "thank you" card or something would be appropriate to show her her hard work has not gone unnoticed. I was never good at verbalizing my appreciation in her last job either to her financial contributions to the household. I thought about including a couple hundred bucks cash inside as a token of good will and a thank you. This way she could use it on whatever she wants instead of it showing up on mint.com where I could see it.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
