Better to love or be loved?

[willbwell]

one more thing I want to share. and again I do it here because I know this is a safe place. We have lived comfortably all our marriage.We are not extravagant by any means, but I have never worried about getting the bills paid or buying groceries. Our home is a 1950's ranch. H wants to give me the house(pay it off- we don't owe a huge amount) There is enough cash in an account to do it. but, h wants to give me the house and be done. I don't want to sell it because I will not do that to the kids.
I am back in school. At best my job( Medical assisting ) will make about 40,000 a year. Taxes and insurance on the house here in TX are about 10,000 a year. H wants to walk away. This is a not new house. This is where his children live. Though it will be paid off, there will still be every year taxes and maintenance to pay.
H just wants to be done. wants to live in an apt and have no responsibilties . Makes me ill to think about.

S17 needs the computer. have to sign off. my life...