Thanks F, that was a quick reply. There really isn't much I can do now, apart from trying to PMA and GAL. And leave the door open for her. At least I will not have the issue next year of whether I have to move out/sell the house. Now I have to get the bank to agree with me to pay out the W. The desert scenario, wasn't as much about circling, but more the trust of what is ahead, even though it cannot be seen. I will post the reply to the W up her, but it will probably be pretty close to what I wrote above. The DB coach agreed to that while we were talking. The email was rough to get (again, why not just the solicitor letter?), and didn't need to be done (showing care?). But did come at the best time (if there ever was a good time) just minutes before the coach session.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
