HWA,

I believe that's a rough e-mail to open and I feel sorry you had to.
On the other hand it settles some things for you and that’s good!

I like the picture of the desert. It describes many sits perfectly and at the same time every desert has its oases and more importantly it ends somewhere. It’s just about staying on the right course and not going in circles.
IMHO you stopped circling a long time ago and you are heading straight out of the sand.

Just keep your eyes on the compass and keep moving forward!

I agree with the advice given. Send W a SHORT mail to let her know you received hers. Consider posting your answer here and get some comments before you press the button.

F

Me:44 W:43
D7, D5 (S11 from other R)

T: 8y - not M
ILYB: 8. Mar 2013
W moved: 1. Aug 2013
LRT: 20. Aug 2013
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