Lucky you had that second pair of eyes I bet it was nice seeing a glimpse of the old H If his life was rosy then I don't think you'd see it at all, but then you've already mentioned that he's made comments about the OW.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I bet it was nice seeing a glimpse of the old H 
