Just noticed in your sig that you're in TX, I'm not sure if it's allowable to post a link directly to the form so I'll instead tell you to Google "divorce waiver form in texas" and click on the state PDF link (there's one for "with children" and one for without). I just read the form and am surprised to see that it says that in signing the form you also waive your right to appear in court to present your side of the argument, so perhaps it's not a good idea to sign this, especially if you have any concerns that your H will try to take advantage of that. I thought the waiver was only to waive being "officially" served. If you don't sign it then you MUST be served by a sheriff, constable or server. That can be difficult and embarrassing, but it may be the safest option to protect yourself.
