Originally Posted By: ForeverYoung
My feelings on being good friends after D, go like this. I won't be able to, because I'll always be looking and hoping for it to be more.

Besides, if she wants to end the M, then I want her to go out and find whatever it is she's looking for, on her own. If she ever decides she wants back in, (highly likely in my mind) I might be open to it at that time.

How's that for getting ahead of myself? lol


I have similar feelings. But mine are complicated by the fact that we have kids, so I have to go on seeing W, forever, whether I like it or not.

And whether I like it or not, I will be looking and hoping for more each time I see her for the foreseeable future.


Me:52
Wife:49
Married 19 years
Son:16
Daughter:14
Bomb dropped with ILYBNILWY: May 2013
Wife moved out 2Jun13

W filed for D 22Sep13