Posted on the old thread by accident so repeating it here:

Saw a very brief glimpse of the old H today while we were heading back from our meeting. Although he doesn't drive, he always was good a being a spotter - keeping an eye on what was going on the road and making sure I had seen any problems. As much as it sounds like it could be annoying, he sometimes did see things I couldn't due to traffic in front, especially if I was behind a truck. For the last several months, anytime he was in the car with me, he hadn't been doing that. This morning he pointed out a stopped car on the shoulder, partially blocking the live lane, that I hadn't seen due to the big rig in front of me and the bend of the road. I made a point of thanking him and letting him know that I hadn't seen it yet due to the truck. I actually realized that I miss having that second pair of eyes sometimes.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks