Both of your comments made me realize something just now. Light bulb!
The OW said she would end contact with him when we talked because he had told her he was already divorced and she was really mad at him, but I, obviously, don't believe her. How could I? They are both liars.
But, I've been OBSESSING about them still being in contact. It is driving me crazy wondering if they're still talking behind my back.
I was just considering texting her again about this stuff...because I was worried about him going back to her. She begged me not to "ruin her"...but I told her that I'm too classy to behave that way.
Anyway, DUH, I have NO control over this. At all. I can worry about it all I want, but it won't change anything. If he goes back to her, he does. If she is stupid enough to take back a man married to someone else who had been lying to her, she does.
I don't have a say. Period. It STINKS big time. But, I have to get this through my head!!!!
