I tried to do as little as possible during those time periods and breathe, relax and try to stay away from anxiety-producing actions such as looking at FB.
I tried to pamper myself and just get through the day. Nights were the worst. But believe it or not, it got better.
I posted here a lot and gathered a lot of strength from folks here and from reading the archives. That got me through a lot of bad spots.
Seeing an IC and talking occasionally to a trusted sister also helped temporarily.
You'll get through it. Really you will!
Thinking of you today, Hoping for strength and courage for you, rH
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway