I'm glad this didn't get lost. In the backstories we create in our heads to explain our WAS' unexplainable decisions, we tend to judge ourselves far more harshly than is fair.
Remember, they are the broken ones, not us. We are the ones doing the hard work.
Acc
I agree Acc. But I also own my part in the demise of my M. I may not have committed a marriage crime but their are things I would've done differently as a husband if I could go back.
I'm sure we all can say that but of course we didn't have the knowledge we have now back then or whenever.
Can only learn from it and try to do the best we can.
