Thank you for coming by and giving me your support. I guess there are a few things I need to just sit with, like H's niceness.
As for the boundaries, I am not completely comfortable with them but maybe that's a normal feeling? Also I want to make absolute sure I am doing them for the right reasons. I feel like any boundary that makes him and the kids seeing less of each other is punishment and not fair to the kids ... Not sure.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home