My title reflects my current stage on my journey. A daunting discovery if ever there was one. To learn the only person stopping me is me. To learn I need to figure out what I want because it's all up to me.
Agreed! You hold the key. What an empowering feeling!
----------- Hmmm.. your question about if you could do it all again.... my answer would be that if I could do it again I don't think I would be in such a rush to marry. When I was young I placed such importance on getting married. Looking back, I don't see any reason to rush. I guess you come to realize that over time.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
