ssmguy, what about having hand jobs re-instated. This way she doesn't have to feel "violated", and she can show you she simply does not want to spend any time on your physical pleasure, it's not important to her...
Way too little too late. I'm interested in adventure, role play, imagination, fantasy, erotic communication. Having just this one very limited activity as the only likely sexual activity for the rest of my life is really absurd to even contemplate. At this time, the best solution for me is friends with benefits.
It is a limited situation to allow for HJ's. But it would also show that she is completely willing to do anything, even if it doesn't violate her. If she is willing to do this it is a step in the right direction.
"it would also show that she is completely willing to do anything, even if it doesn't 'violate' her"
should read:
[/bold]"it would also show that she is completely UNwilling to do anything, even if it doesn't 'violate' her" [/bold]
