As usual, most awesome post and insight cat. I was struggling with the trust issue as well and you have helped me to answer or at least look at a lot of questions I had. Thank you, again.
Ang, good stuff from cat here. Read and reread this. I hope you are doing better today.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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