I re-read my post above. I regret it sounds like I've painted her as a victim. She most likely has things in her past as well. I am not saying you are a bad person and she's not, but rather that you both are individuals with different pasts and feelings and that you both need to work on yourselves, and as a couple.


Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012