I'm so, so sorry. You've been dealing with a whole different kind of thing with him.

Hugs to you for the hard work you put in to trying. I's sad for you and your kids but you know your boundaries.

Wouldn't it be nice if people came with tags? "I'm charming and cute but I just can't be honest to save my soul."

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss