Cadet, thank you kindly for all the links! I've been working very hard on the detachment. Its something I needed to do for myself either way since I definitely have codependency issues. I have read a few of these links while I was lurking, so I will finish reading the others now. Homework assignment starting now!
Me: 31 H: 32 Married 10 years, together 11 No kids H moved out to an apt 8-3-13
Experience: That most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God, do you learn. ~C.S. Lewis