Cadet, thank you kindly for all the links!
I've been working very hard on the detachment. Its something I needed to do for myself either way since I definitely have codependency issues.
I have read a few of these links while I was lurking, so I will finish reading the others now.
Homework assignment starting now!


Me: 31 H: 32
Married 10 years, together 11
No kids
H moved out to an apt 8-3-13

Experience: That most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God, do you learn. ~C.S. Lewis