Well, the congrats on the baby were great...the hubs did as I expected. Found out he is still contacting, thus probably sleeping with at least 2 of the OW. I haven't told him I know yet, as he just moved across the country. I have an appointment tonight with my IC. As previously stated to him, my dealbreaker was lying. He lied. I'm done.

Now I just need to do whatever I need to, to protect my children and my's financial future. Plus, I know as soon as I tell him, he'll be a crazy emotional rollcoaster.

Deep breathe, one foot infront of the other...I can do this!


M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D