Discovering the buck stops here....

[reachingHigher]

Hi Jaye!

I'm so sorry that OW is still a part of your H's life. Sigh. You've been doing such a great job holding ev'rything together

Interesting question to pose: would we marry our spouse all over again?

My initial reaction is NO!!!!

But then again....you've got the choice then to always be alone or marry an imperfect person. Everyone is going to have issues sooner or later.

I look at other M's and think I wouldn't want to put up with some things other people do. And the parts of my life that aren't directly related to my R with my H are great. We live in the country, money isn't a problem, kids are healthy, smart & good lookin' and my H has never prevented me from chasing my dreams.

So....possibly yes. Just wish life didn't have so many twists & turns sometimes. But looking back on this side of MLC, I think H & I are experiencing a M that's really special...a depth of love that I never imagined could be real.

So maybe....I'd do it all over again!

Thanks for provoking thought this morning.

I still love your tag line

Hugs to you today,
rH