Anyway, I am going to try very, very, very hard to give H lots and lots of space. No texts, emails, or calls. No making plans with him. No expectations. I am going to try not to be sad or upset when he doesn't check in on me and/or the kids.
You can do this! I know you can!
Sounds like you did a great job deflecting your mom's wishes for your own M. That is such a difficult situation when you're feeling weak and not sure anyway! Kudos!
Keep strong for yourself and your kids. Your H is in a fog. If you're not ready to make a decision, then just concentrate on your own life and wait for some time to pass. It's so hard, I know! But you can do it!
Thinking of you today, rH
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway
