Hey Tori, I wanted to post last night, but was too tired
Sorry about the in laws, and having negative feelings is absolutely warranted. How one lets them dictate what we do is another. You have no worries in that department. You truly understand that the only one you control is you and even though it hurts, you can see this. That is pretty solid from where I stand.
I would also be hurt. SIL did a few things when H and I were first separated that led me to believe she really wasn't there for me lol!
Poor woman, Having to take sides. But I think a mom will always choose her kid (well, unless that kid is a real a$$, then I would choose different lol).
Joe may be misguided, lost and adolescent, but he is not evil.....
